I have been told that I don't update my blog enough :) I guess since we have already started schooling, that's really going to be true.
I wanted to post this article that I read recently. I frequent a website (here)
that answers a lot of biblical questions. They have some great posts about what scriptures say about being a wife and mother.
I really liked this one. It gave me a little encouragement as I start this new school year.
I guess when I start thinking that my life has no ministry or maybe I am not doing enough at church or the community, scripture has to reel me back in. I have to remember that my children and husband ARE my ministry. This is something that our society does not value. Even in our churches!! If we as women could truly live what Titus 2 says.
My children are not like livestock that I only feed and care for basic needs. I have to constantly be aware of my role as mother. I have to care not only for the physical needs but emotional, psychological and most importantly their SPIRITUAL. NO pressure there.
God has blessed me, not burdened me. I need to remember that. I spoke to a woman yesterday that is in her mid-30's and is unable to have children. She ached for a child and felt like there was no hope to ever have one of her own. I will never know that pain. God blessed me even when I was not ready for a child. I need to take this responsibility seriously and not push to the wayside.
Praise God for children!! As mother's, we get a minuscule glimpse of God's love for us!
Question: "What does the Bible say about Christian mothers?"
Answer: Being a mother is a very important role that the Lord chooses to give many women. Mothers are told to love their children in Titus 2:4-5 which says, “Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.” In Isaiah 49:15a the Bible says, “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne?” When does motherhood begin?
Children are a gift from the Lord (Psalm 127:3-5). In Titus 2:4, the Greek word “phileoteknos” appears. This word represents a special kind of “mother-love”. The idea that flows out of this word is that of “preferring” our children, “caring” for them, “nurturing” them, “affectionately embracing” them, “meeting their needs,” “tenderly befriending” each one as unique from the hand of God. We are commanded in the Scripture to see “mother-love,” as our responsibility. Both mothers and fathers are commanded to do several things in the Word:
Availability – morning, noon, and night (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)
Involvement – interacting, discussing, thinking and processing life together (Ephesians 6:4)
Teaching – the Scriptures, a biblical world-view (Psalm 78:5-6, Deuteronomy 4:10, Ephesians 6:4)
Training – helping a child develop skills and discover his strengths (Proverbs 22:6)
Discipline – teaching the fear of the Lord, drawing the line consistently, lovingly, firmly (Ephesians 6:4, Hebrews 12:5-11, Proverbs 13:24, 19:18, 22:15, 23:13-14, 29:15-17)
Nurture – providing an environment of constant verbal support, freedom to fail, acceptance, affection, unconditional love, (Titus 2:4, 2 Timothy 1:7, Ephesians 4:29-32, 5:1-2, Galatians 5:22, 1 Peter 3:8-9)
Modeling with Integrity – living what you say, being a model by which a child can learn by “catching” the essence of godly living (Deuteronomy 4:9, 15, 23; Proverbs 10:9, 11:3; Psalm 37:18, 37).
The Bible never commands that every woman should be a mother. However, it does say that those whom the Lord blesses to be mothers should take the responsibility seriously. Mothers have a unique and crucially important role in the lives of their children. Motherhood is not a chore or unpleasant task. Just as a mother bears a child during pregnancy, and just as a mother feeds and cares for a child during infancy – so mothers also play an ongoing role in the lives of their children, teenagers, young adults, and even fully-grown children. While the role of motherhood must change and develop – the love, care, nurture, and encouragement a mother gives should never cease.